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Negotiating A Fair Financial Settlement After Divorce: Key Considerations

Divorce is a challenging transition, full of financial complexities. A key part of this process is negotiating a fair financial settlement.

Financial Settlement

Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging transitions, fraught with emotional and financial complexities. One of the most critical aspects of this process is negotiating a fair financial settlement; a task that requires careful consideration, strategy, and – often – professional guidance.

At Coles Miller, we know how complex this process can be, which is why we are dedicated to helping our clients through each stage. We want to assist you with the crucial financial choices that are involved in divorce, and in this article, we will explain the main things you need to consider - and try to ease some of your stress. 


Understanding Legal Entitlements 

The first step towards a fair settlement is understanding your legal rights and entitlements. The Law in England and Wales aims to ensure that financial settlements are equitable, considering various factors such as the length of the marriage, the standard of living enjoyed by the family, each party's needs, and their future earning potential. Familiarising yourself with these principles can provide a solid foundation for your negotiations.


Full Disclosure of Assets and Liabilities

Honesty is essential; the law demands that both parties reveal their assets and liabilities in full. This includes everything from property, savings, investments and pensions, to debts and financial obligations. 

Attempting to conceal assets can lead to legal repercussions and undermine the fairness of the settlement. A comprehensive financial disclosure ensures that all discussions and decisions are based on accurate information.


Valuing Assets and Debts

Correctly valuing assets is crucial. This often involves professional valuations of property and businesses, as well as up to date valuations of both parties’ pension funds. 
It's essential not just to know what assets exist but to understand their true worth.

Similarly, accurately assessing liabilities ensures that debts are fairly divided, protecting both parties from future financial disputes.

 

Pension Considerations

Pensions are often one of the most significant assets in a marriage, and their division can be complex. 

Options include pension sharing, where pension assets are divided at the point of divorce; offsetting, where the value of the pension is balanced against other assets; and attachment orders, which redirect some pension benefits to the other spouse upon retirement. 

Each option has different implications for your financial security, making it vital to consider your long-term needs and retirement goals. You should consult a financial advisor to help decide the best path for you, or a PODE (Pensions on Divorce Expert) if you are considering pension sharing.

 

Maintenance Payments 

If there's a disparity in earning potential - or if one party has taken a career break, or has young children - spousal maintenance payments may be appropriate. 

These payments are based on the requirements of the spouse who receives them, and the financial ability of the other spouse to pay them.

 

Child Support 

Additionally, child support will be calculated to ensure that children's needs are met. This is usually assessed in line with the Government’s Child Maintenance Service formula (CMS).
Understanding the guidelines and calculations for these payments can help you anticipate future financial commitments.


Negotiation Strategies

Approaching negotiations with a clear strategy can facilitate a smoother process. This includes setting realistic goals, prioritising your needs and wants, and being prepared to compromise on less critical issues. 

Effective communication and negotiation techniques can help both parties reach an amicable agreement following separation, often minimising the need for Dispute Resolution (DR) through the court.


The Role of Non-Court Dispute Resolution

There has been a change in the Family Procedure Rules concerning Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) and from 29th April 2024, rather than proceed with DR through the court, there is an expectation on separating parties to consider and engage in NCDR. 
Even where court proceedings have commenced, the parties are still required to consider the various ways of resolving their matter - by agreement, where possible.

 At least seven days before any first hearing or appointment in court, both parties must send a form called an FM5 to both the court and to the other party, confirming whether they have attended NCDR in relation to their dispute. They also have to provide full details of the NCDR provider and explain why NCDR was not the right way of resolving their dispute. The court can adjourn a case if they think NCDR would be a more appropriate way to resolve the matter of dispute.

Most problems that come up after separation can be solved by different methods, such as lawyers negotiating, mediation, or other options that do not involve going to court - such as arbitration, early neutral evaluation, or Private Financial Dispute Resolution hearings (pFDR).  

The recent changes reflect the court's and the government's continuing efforts to promote NCDR as a method of settling disputes, instead of going through the adversarial court process.


Mediation 

Mediation (including hybrid mediation and solicitor supported mediation) is often used to   help parties reach a fair agreement without the conflict of going to court. 


These methods often involve collaborating with other family lawyers or other experts to help negotiate the terms of the settlement. They can offer a more cost-effective, flexible, and less stressful alternative to contested litigation, emphasising mutual respect and open communication between the parties.

Family mediation puts the parties in control of the outcome with the assistance of an impartial, trained mediator. The mediator can assist the parties with settling finances and if agreement can be reached can prepare a document called a Memorandum of Understanding which records any agreements made and, before a final agreement is reached, independent legal advice on this document can be sought. 

Once a final agreement has been reached a family lawyer can assist you in making this into a binding and enforceable court order. 
Arrangements for children can also be resolved at mediation with a joint parenting plan being drawn up. 


Arbitration 

Arbitration can also be used to avoid the contested court process. A private, independent, trained arbitrator - usually an experienced family law barrister - can be agreed by both parties and asked to make a decision that will be binding on both sides, resolving any areas of dispute. The case would be presented to the arbitrator as if it were in a court setting, but the process would usually be quicker, less stressful and often more cost effective than the contested court process. Both parties would have to sign an agreement to be bound by the arbitration process.


Private Financial Dispute Resolution

Private Financial Dispute Resolution (pFDR) hearings are generally a quicker and more cost-effective way to resolve financial issues after a financial application has been issued through the court, and can avoid the inevitable court delays. The setting is again comparable to the courtroom, but the parties decide on the date and venue, and the matter is scheduled for a pFDR hearing after both sides have shared their financial information. 

The parties choose an evaluator with expertise - usually a barrister, or retired judge - who would give their opinion on what they would decide if they were hearing the case, which often helps the parties reach a final settlement. Any agreement reached can then be converted to a binding court order that can be made by consent.

If agreement cannot be reached, the parties can return to the contested court process if necessary.


Early Neutral Evaluation 

Early neutral evaluation is a non-binding form of NCDR which works at the early stages of the case and before the parties consider the court process. It is an approach that involves working with an impartial and experienced family lawyer evaluator who will consider the issues and provide the parties with an independent and expert opinion on the merits of their case and give a neutral preliminary view of the likely outcome, which can greatly assist in narrowing or even resolving the issues. 


An agreed evaluator can also be used for cases involving children. The evaluator or judge would consider the papers and hear from both parties and their respective legal advisers, delivering their evaluation of the likely outcome after the hearing.  Sometimes they can deliver their evaluation on reading the papers, without requiring a hearing at all.


Seeking Professional Advice

Given the complexities involved, seeking professional advice is invaluable. A family lawyer can guide you through the legal framework, help you understand your rights and options, and represent your interests in negotiations or court. 

Additionally, financial advisors can offer insights into long-term financial planning, ensuring that your settlement aligns with your future financial goals.

 

Protecting Your Financial Future

Finally, it's crucial to look beyond the immediate settlement and consider the long-term impact on your financial health. This includes revisiting your estate planning, adjusting your retirement savings strategy, and rebuilding your credit if necessary. Taking steps to secure your financial independence and safeguard your future is an essential part of moving forward after divorce.


Negotiating a fair financial settlement in a divorce is a multifaceted process that demands attention to detail, a thorough understanding of legal principles, and strategic planning. 
At Coles Miller, our goal is to empower our clients with the knowledge and support they need to navigate this challenging journey. By considering these key factors and seeking professional guidance, you can work towards a settlement that is not only fair but also lays the foundation for a stable and positive future.


Next Steps: Get Expert Help


•    Consult a Family Lawyer. Professional advice is invaluable. Book a chat with a family lawyer to discuss your situation.
•    Financial Planning. Start planning for your post-divorce financial future. Consult an independent financial adviser.
•    Support Systems. Divorce can be emotionally taxing. Support from professionals, friends, and family is crucial during this time.

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